My professional life has been a constant record of disillusion, and many things that seem wonderful to most men are the every-day commonplaces of my business.

Harry Houdini, magician

How many of the above list did you check off? Is your adult life a magic show with constant disillusion of others? People who checked several answers to this list tend to have a life of conning, manipulating and trouble. Are you willing to let people know who you are, or do you carry on you a false front of charm, that hides your true self from others? Are you willing to do the work to make your life successful, or do you sit back and wait for others to care for you, and then blame the world when you don’t get the life you want? Do you blame others when your plans and relationships fail? If you find that this section describes you, and you wish to change, it is especially important that you learn to listen to your thoughts, and use deterrents to stop harmful thinking, and change to thoughts that will lead to positive actions.